Date Nite

Being in new jersey has been the highs and the lows. tonight i decided to check something else off my list of "things i've never done before by myself"...tonight i went to a movie alone. just me and my popcorn and root beer. feeling inspired and encouraged after mine and michelle's conversation 2 weekends ago, i decided to go for it. i've never been self assured enough to go to movies or dinner by myself. but since i've been traveling by myself for work these past few weeks, it's been my chance to test the waters.

like last week, i was feeling very bold and did not want room service. i was trying to think about what i wanted for dinner, and i got a craving for chicken crispers. i was still feeling nervous about going to dinner alone, so i took another look at the room service menu just in case. but nothing was going to satisfy my chicken crispers craving except the real thing. chili's it is, then! whew, you can do this. i drove to chili's and it's about 8:30...and the parking lot has 2 cars in the lot. i'm seriously debating whether or not to go in, but i am resolved to do this. i opt for a high-top in the bar area (where there are actually people). mind you, there are only 4 people, but oh well. so i sit down with my purse, phone, and yellow notebook (yes, i brought a notebook to write in just in case things got weird and i felt like i had to do something). but that's beside the point. i sat the notebook in the chair beside me and made myself put my phone away. i didn't want to be these cliche' people that can't just do nothing and look at their phone as a way to make it look like they've got something to do (note: i took my phone out to text michelle that i was eating dinner alone. then put it away for the rest of dinner).

A nice waiter around my age comes over and takes my order, John. he was nice and it made the "first dinner by myself" feel really easy, like ive been doing this my whole life. i got my chicken crispers and a blue moon. alas, the chicken crispers weren't as good as i'd imagined, but they were just the thing that got me out of the hotel room. john was being accidentally clumsy and i tried not to laugh. knocking my table when he walked by me, dropping sugar packets (yes, they were already cleaning the restaurant for the night). he was rubber banding the sugar packets together and i couldn't figure it out. then he sarcastically explained that they actually wash the dish things the sugar goes in...who knew! i kept an eye on the group of ladies that were chatting to see if their conversation was dying bc they had already finished their meal. and the couple that was done eating but being really slow packing their leftovers and debating how much tip to leave. i started casually gulping my beer bc the thought of being the last customer in the restaurant terrified me. i didn't want to be that girl holding everyone in the kitchen up. i mean, it was a monday night, but the place was dead at 9pm... so i held out and chatted with john and his bartender friend and told them id be back in hopewell maybe in october. dinner alone wasn't that bad!

and the movie tonight was really fun. i took myself on my very first date lol. i got 1 student ticket, $9 (shush). small popcorn (butter), $6. small root beer (was going for diet coke, but changed my mind...i have a weakness for root beer), $4.75. less than $20, i'm a pretty cheap date! i went to see eat, pray, love because it's a coming of age movie and a chickish flick. i feel like im starting a new chapter too, or want to. i liked the movie fine, even though it got bad reviews. it was just me and another couple in the theatre, but i was actually quite comfortable. i thought i'd be embarrassed to laugh by myself, but i found that when i laughed, so did the couple. i think we bonded. i even said, "have a good night" to them when i left the theatre. it's scary doing things by yourself, but you learn a lot about yourself. it's not too bad once you put yourself out there and stop overthinking everything. tonight's my last night in hopewell, nj. it's like i'm living in a different life up here. when i think about my life in charlotte, it feels like i'm watching my life from the outside. i can't really explain it. but, it's definitely given me time to think. now to act, that's the real kicker.

Lunch Time

Today was a perfect lunch day. As usual, Max and I wandered out to Trade and Tryon with no idea where to go for lunch. We're just about to get to the crosswalk, when we see a chef making some mini feast under a tent with a crowd watching. So we stop to look at what's going on. The guy is French and saying things about cooking in the "oh he's definitely a chef" way. Accent and all. His chef coat even said Jean Pierre. He kept going on and on about how he was making his little chicken sliders with corn salsa. As we're watching (waiting for the free sample), I spy some pretty great people. One of my favorite things to do is take pictures of people, esp intriguing strangers. That's not creepy at all. Max knows the drill, I say, "smile Max!" really exaggeratedly. He smiles, moves to the side and I get a shot of this super stylin' guy. Jeans rolled up, loafters, and raybans. He's way too fashionista for Charlotte. And then, i spot another. Max likes to call him the black Orville Redenbacher, but i prefer Colonel Sanders. Either way, this man was dressed to the nines! I got a good side profile shot, but had Max take a picture "of me" to get the better angle. Still doesn't quite do him justice, but you'll get the "picture." Ah, yes. it was a great lunch. Then we strolled to Just Fresh and ate a Turkey in a Straw, recommended by Mr. Ohlhaut himself. Oh yeah, and the chicken slider sample was delicious too. Free is always yummy. Great lunch break!

Deep Clean

A few weeks ago I decided to give my little house a deep cleaning. I'm talking dusting window blinds, cleaning dirt from the sills, sweeping the whole house, mopping AND windexing. Whew, talk about a chore. It took me over 5 hours to clean my place. I even used the pin sol and red bucket for mopping for the first time. When it's just one person, things don't get too messy, but still. This was the nitty gritty cleaning. The next morning, I was feeling really good about the way the house looked, so I decided to take some pics of the place. It occurred to me that even though the title of my blog includes "adventures of Amy and her little house" that I'd never really posted many pics of the inside of my house. Let me take you on a 10 picture tour...

Breakfast Nook

Breakfast table and chairs - circa 1950, from my Aunt Florence & Uncle Paul's kitchen in Trussville, AL

Picture clock - circa 2005, Target

Placemats- circa ?, Father & Sons in Raleigh

Side table lamp- circa 1960, from my mom and aunt's childhood bedrooms

Living Room

Paris painting- circa 1942, Burlington Antique Mall

TV- circa 2010, hhgregg

Vintage green couch- circa 1960?, Sharon Towers

Coffee table- circa 2004, Rooms to Go Outlet

Throw pillows- circa 2010, Ikea

Papizon chair- circa 2003, Dan's

Kitchen

Sugar, Flour, Coffee Tea, Bread Box containers- circa 1970, Aunt Florence & Uncle Paul

London tea box- circa 2010, Marshall's

NC State Coke bottle- circa 1983, Burlington Antique Mall

Touch-n-toast- circa 1970, Aunt Florence & Uncle Paul

Sugar and creamer set- circa 1960, Aunt Florence & Uncle Paul

Love birds salt and pepper shakers, spoon rest- circa 1970, Aunt Florence & Uncle Paul

Ball Perfect Mason jar- circa 1923, Aunt Florence & Uncle Paul

Hand painted Recipe Book- circa 1970, Aunt Florence & Uncle Paul

View from kitchen sink window to my front yard and driveway

Guest Room/Office/Music Room

from left,

Vanity- circa 1930, Nanny

iMac- circa 2007, Best Buy

Glass desk- circa 2007, Ashley Furniture

Desk chair- circa 1970, Dad

Bookshelf- circa 2010, Target

Records- circa 1940-2010, various (Amoeba Music, Goodwill, Alabaster Thrift Shop, Grandmother, Aunt Florence & Uncle Paul, Mom & Dad, Barbara Pixley)

Record player, AM Radio chest- circa 1950, Aunt Florence & Uncle Paul

Record player (black)- circa 2002, Restoration Hardware

My Room

decorative "A"- circa 2010, The Paris Market in Savannah, GA

Paris painting- circa 2006, street painter in Paris

Disney scene frame- circa 2007, Dan

macaroni frame- circa 2006, Dan

Love photo frame- circa 2009, Urban Outfitters